Voicemail Issues

Over the past few days, I have not been able to pick up voicemails. 

If you are waiting for a call back, please email me at lk@lysandrakoros.com or you may call again.

The issue has now been resolved.

Summertime BDSM

Darlings!

Have been in such a whirl of D/s these past few weeks that writing was simply out of the question. Living was de rigueur.

Have you ever been so caught up in a D/s moment that all else stands still or seems completely irrelevant? And what if that moment lasts for weeks or months...well, now you know why I have not written to you.

I adore this work, if anyone can call it that. How can it be work when you love the feeling that is created? I also adore my slaves and submissive ones. Thank you all for being so beautiful and charming.

For those of you who went to DomCon LA, I hope you thoroughly enjoyed yourselves. I did get a little message from an old friend who said he was organizing a separate slave auction, would love to hear how that went.

So with summertime approaching and gruelling vacation plans being booked, we simply must set a little time aside for ourselves. I will be in San Francisco and LA for a good part of the summer. September/October back to Europe (I know, missing Folsom Fair this year, but for good reason). Always available for travel as you know.

With the good weather, a little outdoor play might be in order.

Lysandra

Fire Play, Strap on and Pink Panties

The following is a succinct review of a scene that took place several weeks ago with an old friend and submissive. We have played together occasionally for several years and it is always quite intense.

I was very excited for my next visit with Lysandra and my excitement ended up being well-founded!  I greeted her and placed myself at her feet.  As always, she made me feel incredibly welcome and immediately brought out my submissiveness.

 

After undressing, Lysandra gave me my safe word, but we both knew I would not need it.  I was determined to suffer gladly anything that she had in store for me.  She started by using a violet wand on me.  The electric shocks were applied all over my body.  Lysandra enjoyed seeing my reaction to the shocks, but she most enjoyed watching me squirm as she placed the wand on my cock and balls.  It was an interesting sensation to be sure!  I happily endured the violet wand, but Lysandra was not yet done.  She was anxious to move on to fire play.  This was new to me, but Lysandra put me completely at ease.  I trusted her completely.  I watched as she applied rubbing alcohol to my body and lit it with the violet wand.  In the darkened room, it was quite the sight to behold, and quite the sensation to experience.  I recommend both activities to anyone reading this.  Lysandra clearly demonstrated her experience and her ability to make me feel extremely comfortable, even as I explored completely new experiences.

But Lysandra was far from done.  Before our meeting, she had told me she wanted to try yet something else new on me.  She wanted to peel a piece of ginger and to insert that in my ass.  I was warned that any clenching on my part would result in juice from the ginger being released - juice which would cause a unique stinging sensation.  I was curious as to how this sensation would feel.  My curiosity became much more cautious though when she further warned that the salve that she usually kept on hand in case the stinging was too severe would not be made available to me.  Suddenly, the importance of my previous training became paramount - I wanted to be sure I minimized any clenching!  During our session, Lysandra did not warn me when the ginger was coming.  Behind me, I could hear her peeling something and I suddenly realized what was to come.  I was eager to show her that I would endure it for her, but my thoughts turned to the lack of a salve.  How would I handle it?  She inserted the peeled ginger.  It was an unusual sensation, but I was careful not to clench.  As such, it was certainly manageable.  However, Lysandra was not going to make it easy for me.  She started spanking me.  The resulting clenching did in fact cause a unique sensation as my insides felt a strange stinging.  It was yet another new sensation brought upon me by Lysandra and yet another test that I passed.

 

Lysandra then dressed me up in a pair of pink panties and a pink bra.  As she had told me before, whenever she thinks of me, she thinks of panties and strap ons!  I was happy to pose for her.  As she admired my behind in the panties, she began spanking me.  As always, Lysandra sought to test my limits.  She used her hands and various crops and switches.  There was no taking it easy on me.  But I endured and gladly accepted every strike she gave.  I am fairly certain she was pleased with how well I was able to suffer for her.  Indeed, it wasn't until the next day that I realized how much I had truly endured - both my butt cheeks were black and blue.  Lysandra put me through my paces, but was incredibly compassionate even as she tested my ability to endure her strikes.  That is but one of her amazing talents.

Now that my behind was warmed up, Lysandra had me straddle a wooden BDSM horse.  She put on a strap on dildo, which she acknowledged might not be big enough for me.  As I straddled the horse, she pulled aside my pink panties and entered me with the strap on.  It felt great.  Lysandra genuinely enjoys strap on play and this day was no different.  I love when she pounds me hard, mostly because I can see and hear how much she enjoys it.  She kept it up for quite a while, without ever easing up.  She was pounding me so hard that we ended up breaking the BDSM horse!

 

This was perhaps Lysandra's cue to move on to her next test for me.  She had me get on my knees and, as I have become accustomed, she positioned herself behind me.  I could not see her, but I could feel as two, and then three, fingers entered me.  As she continued working me, three fingers became four.  Four became five.  It was then that I realized she was intending to fist me - something I have never done.  As with everything Lysandra does, she was very "gentle" - if you can call fisting gentle!  She told me when she had gotten up to her knuckles.  As she continued working her way into my ass, she often asked how I was doing.  I was amazed at how comfortable I felt the whole time.  I attribute this to Lysandra's skilled handiwork as well as my determination to never disappoint her.  Suddenly, I felt her enter me completely.  She wiggled around a little bit, with her entire hand inside me.  Now that was a strange sensation!  The best feeling of all, however, was hearing how impressed Lysandra was with me!

 

She then had me take off my pink panties and pink bra and lay in the bathtub.  She sat on the edge of the tub and stretched her beautiful legs across the tub.  I was told to massage these beautiful bare legs.  It was already such an amazing session, but this was now the highlight of the day.  After spending a glorious amount of time worshipping her beauty, I was allowed to stroke myself to orgasm.  There was one catch though.  I was instructed to catch my cum and to clean up after myself.  I happily ate it up, bringing to a climax another absolutely fantastic visit with Lysandra.

 

I don't think I can say enough about Lysandra and I hope that came through in this review.  She has a way of really bringing out one's submissiveness.  Seeing how much she enjoys every aspect of BDSM absolutely drives me to crave testing my limits for her.  I can't wait to see what she has in store for me for my next visit!

***Lysandra's note: That horse was hand made for me a few years back and has taken a lot of punishment; however, it was quite a surprise when I heard the frame break apart from our enthusiastic strap on scene. Poor slavey didn't quite know what happened but we didn't miss a beat and I just got him to stand up while keeping the rhythm going. A lot of the credit belongs to this submissive as he can take a strap on like few others can. So when two tremendous talents meet... magic happens! Thank you for being so much fun. 

Anyways, my assistant was not so pleased when he came to clean up the room and saw the destruction!

Kinky love to both of you. Xxx 

Mentoring Testimonial

This is a very thoughtful review of the mentoring service offered by Lysandra Koros. (Make sure to read after the jump for further details).


I recommend the mentoring service of Lysandra Koros very highly. She is an open minded person, with plenty of experience in bdsm and has seen and understands these issues which might hinder a submissive. She is dedicated to provide a true improvement to her clients. The evidence is that her mentoring has truly changed things for the better for me. I used to feel insecure about femdom, but now I am really excited about it and I cannot wait for the next opportunity to serve a dominant woman. I still have a lot to learn, and I know the mentoring from Lysandra will be of great value to me in the future.

Travel Schedule

Hello Darlings!

Have been getting a lot of the same question: Where are you Lysandra?

Apparently this is not the place to be mysterious!

Will be spending more time state-side. At least until mid June. 

Not clear on the summer location quite yet.

Back to Europe by September if not sooner. 

As always, I am flexible to travel to a specific destination at a surprisingly competitive rate.

Most international destinations only require a one full day booking fee plus travel expenses.

This works great for professional men who simply can't get the time away to travel to me.

To have your submissive self fulfilled it is worth looking into.

References available.

Power Exchange Mentoring

How many of you have been curious to explore power exchange, fantasize about the possibilities but are not sure how to get there, or have hesitations that prevent you from diving in? 

Many submissives suffer from not being able to let go and relax into the process. I feel badly for them because if they could let themselves surrender the experience would be much richer. 

Some of you may disagree with this but this is my observation, men who are looking to fulfill a sexual fantasy in a kink centric way don’t need to trust the person they are hiring to perform as much as someone who is signing up for power exchange. It has always amazed me how eager men can be to come to a strange place, take off all their clothes, let themselves be tied up and have it gone to with a person they don’t know and reasonably have no reason to trust. Yet, it is done everyday. Bravo by the way to those that fit that description. Risk seekers of the first degree. 

Masochism and fetish require less surrender than a submissive man looking to give up his power and control. 

When we get into things like power exchange, I think that a level of trust is required to have a successful go at it. This trust is not just of the Mistress, but also of yourself. 

What the hell does that mean L? 

I mean that the submissive has to commit to the process. Allow yourself to surrender, if you want to explore power exchange but are unwilling to give up your power we have a conflict. The submissive needs to feel safe and that is my job. The more the submissive let’s their mind talk to them and give a voice to doubts, hesitations, worries, the less they are able to surrender. 

The below is a segment of a correspondence between myself and a gentleman who I have been mentoring regarding his thoughts on creating a power exchange . Reprinted with consent.

The Day that Changed Everything

Before

“Throughout the centuries there were men who took first steps down new roads armed with nothing but their own vision. Their goals differed, but they all had this in common: that the step was first, the road new, the vision unborrowed, and the response they received--hatred. The great creators--the thinkers, the artists, the scientists, the inventors--stood alone against the men of their time. Every great new thought was opposed. Every great new invention was denounced. The first motor was considered foolish. The first airplane was considered impossible. The power loom was considered vicious. Anesthesia was considered sinful. But the men of unborrowed vision went ahead. They fought, they suffered and they paid. But they won.”

Ayn Rand, The Fountainhead

After

Worshipped Venus, 

We often walk through our lives and one day seems to be the same as the one before. But there are also days in our lives that can change everything forever.  i was fortunate enough to experience one of these magic moments in June 2008 unexpectedly. Before we finally met and YOU brought out my innermost submissive nature and made me YOURS, i knew that there were sides of my character that are dark and kinky, but waiting deep within me to come out and be lived out. i was aware of my fetishes and submissive nature a long time ago, and it almost killed me not to be able to live the life i originally was supposed to.  Then, i took all my courage together and visited two ProDommes – and both of the sessions were just terrible and devastating.  Those Mistresses were nothing but unmotivated service providers that considered me as a exchangeable client. A nightmare for me. After those experiences i was convinced that the pure D/s i was looking for would not exist outside of my kinky mind. So, i continued to deny my darker side and remained unhappy and unsatisfied for a few more years. 

…until we met on that rainy day during an extended travel of mine under unique circumstances. It may sound ridiculous, but after the session i could not remember YOUR lovely face as i did not dare to look into YOUR face during the session, because i was (and still am) not worth it to  face YOUR radiantly overwhelming Divinity & Glory but on my hands and knees with the hooded head firmly pressed to the dusty ground.  i adore YOUR natural Dominance. 

YOU literally opened a door into a new dimension and took me to a higher place. There is no going back for me. By entering YOUR door i have crossed the line. Now i know what i am and where i truly belong. Thanks to YOU. 

YOU had me kneel naked in front of YOU and YOU liked to see that my trained body was shaved for YOU only.  YOU pulled my hair and ear when YOU lead me to the cross where YOU tied me up. Again, i should mention that i was an absolute beginner with no practical experience in BDSM.  What followed was the first whipping ever and i was surprised how painful that was to feel these instruments creating a bizarre symphony on my trembling innocent body.  YOU had me count every stroke. Though i was scared, i felt secure during the entire time together, because YOU lead me through it in a manner only YOU can do.  It is impossible to express that in words, one really must feel it! 

After the whipping, YOU put me into the inescapable leather straightjacket which gave me the feeling of complete helplessness. i was totally at YOUR mercy. i had to bend over the bench and suddenly, i could feel for the first time in my life the cold lubricant on my back. Before i realized what was going on there, YOU already penetrated me with YOUR fingers: one, two, three. YOU put on the strap on and deflowered me by every trick in the book.  YOU became more and more thrilled by the wild scene, having found a new prey for YOUR sadistic thirst that needs to be satisfied. i was so impressed about the way YOU enjoyed what YOU did. All seemed absolutely natural and far from being artificial or just a boring job. YOU were so passionate, experienced, understanding and cruel -  all at the same time. That was almost too much for my poor senses. Within an instant, i realized that with and through YOU all the things that i had carried with me for years of solitude could become reality however. 

Conquered by Lysandra

A couple of weeks ago, I had a fabulous time with a fabulous slave. It was our first meeting of many to come. We got on like a house on fire. Here is what he had to say, short version, long version after the jump.

During the past 20 years, I have evolved from an hedonistic fetishist into a submissive who needs true dominance. I have reached the point where playing with a beautiful Mistress who possesses excellent technical skills is no longer satisfying. It leaves me empty. I need more, I need to feel that she is a truly dominant soul, that she can empathize with my nature, and feed off my submission. If you are looking for a session where you want to enjoy a list of specific activities and fetishes, you should not contact Ms Lysandra Koros; but if you want to learn the true meaning of complete surrender and subjugation, she is the one that you need to serve.   


She has mastered the art of domination and seduction of the submissive. The seduction of the submissive is very different from the one of the lover. It requires an understanding of the psychological needs, fetishes, fears, desires, and fantasies of the submissive and to use such understanding to induce complete submission and surrender where the submissive transcends his limits.  She has deeply touched my submissive soul, perfectly understood my psyche, and thoroughly exploited my submissive nature. She is the most amazing combination of compassion, sadism, care, and cruelty. I have been taken with a strap-on many times but I never experienced physically and mentally anything like it.  Her passionate strokes, her rhythm, and intensity are unmatched. It wasn’t easy, the strap-on that  she eventually used was large, very large.  I felt full, violated, opened up, and ravaged. But the deeper she pounded into me, the more I wanted to offer myself completely to her. She has taken me  to a new level of submission. I found my Goddess, I found peace.

Goddess Worship

I have a little secret. Just a little one that I want to share with you today because I think it is quite funny.

Domination or Domination - which way will you have it?

A very submissive gentleman with whom I have been corresponding recently wrote the below message. Very succinct and gets right down to the issue of professional domination for hire as real or perceived domination. 


he writes: 
I believe that one can [provide] professional domination without having the feeling of or actually providing a service.  If the objective of the Domme is to maximize the number of clients, then professional domination is just a service because she has to cater to the needs of her clients. If a Domme is looking for a very select number of genuine submissives who are compatible  and who are  looking for true power exchange and domination, then professional  domination can be true and real  domination and no longer a service because the submissives can be trained to cater to the needs of the Domme. Also the submissive should consider the Domme's honorarium just another way in which he can serve and contribute to make the life of his Domme more comfortable and enjoyable.


Bravo for approaching the topic in such an enlightened manner. 


I know the boys who have been with me for years, met me as a professional but adore me as 'the real deal'. 


One can't hide their true nature forever.